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 I made adjustments to my parenting style, that's when real transformation started, May 15, 2013
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Shira
Total transformation provided the tools and guidance on practicing new approaches to my usual, ineffective parenting techniques. Before the program, rules and decisions were always up for renegotiation. Abusive behavior was not addressed with resilience. Giving simple direction escalated into shouting matches. I also learned that my 13 year old son lacked problem solving skills that greatly impacted his behavior. Connecting the dots between skills, behaviors and ensuing problems is empowering and truly transformative.
Amy , May 12, 2013
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stressed mother of three boys
I called because my children were becoming out of control I am on the third disc and it seems to be making a big difference in them! !
would recommend , May 08, 2013
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Grace
This program was totally worth the money and time. We have a teenage daughter and this program worked very well for our whole family
Total Transformation Program: Truly, Totally Transforming!, May 07, 2013
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The Total Transformation Program is truly a remarkable program. It is in the process of "transforming" negative behaviors of our soon to be, 8 yr. old granddaughter.
We , regretfully, did not use the Parental Support Line, resource. I truly believe we should have...and possibly did not do so because of "embarrassment"...I encourage all to reach out and take advantage of this resource!
This program is not for those who are looking for a "do this" and get a "quick fix"...it is not for those who are seeking a "punishment" mode toward correction. HOWEVER, it is for anyone who is willing to "work the Program"...by this I mean...take the time, listen to what is recommended, and try the recommendations. It challenges anyone in a "parenting" role, to try different approaches. It helps us to change our thinking...our own "stuck in the mud" , approaches...and if one truly tries and "works the program"...it works!
I also believe it will be an on going program...to continue to use throughout the childhood of our granddaughter....Bravo, and Thank you for this: Total Transformation!
Parenting That Really Works!, April 27, 2013
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FreakOutMom
I bought the Total Transformation Program for my adopted daughter who was struggling with ADHD, attachment problems, and anxiety disorders. The Total Transformation Program gave me practical tips that I could use every day. Even though it's been months since I purchase the Total Transformation Program I can still here Jim Lehman's voice in my head coaching me through tough moments I have with my daughter. I highly recommend this program! It can literally change the game for you and your family.
Total Transformation Review, April 17, 2013
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GiNaC
Total Transformation is an excellent, compassionate program that not only teaches me new parenting skills, but helps me teach my children skills they need to grow into responsible adults. It takes a lot of time, effort, and patience - and it's worth it. I was really struggling when I ordered this program and I'm sure not perfect at applying it, but I'm on the right track, and I'm not alone.
Best program for your child, April 10, 2013
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rjetravis
The lessons take the parent through the program step by step. There is no guess work. The best results come from putting in the time to work to improve your relationship with your child.
Teaching me to adjust different teniques to dicipline , April 09, 2013
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melis6670
As i have read and watched the total transformation it is so helpful in every day life and every age child from 1 to 20 .Everything that James Lehman teaches is awesome .
At first i just wonted james to come stay at my house i was raiseing a 17 year old and a 3 year old you talk about tough. but then after studying and being able to go back to the teaching has help me drasticly .I will say that this is for every parent that has a problem with there children.I OWE IT TO MR.LEHMAN FOR MY TEACHIGS . THANK YOU VERY MUCH.....
TT Review, April 05, 2013
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Charlotte
I am a grandmother. I have two grandchildren that I watch often. One of them had behivor problems. This program was a live savor. My son & daughter-in-law saw improvments in what I was doing.They started asking me for ideas I was using, & started doing the same things with sucess. The program was awesome, thank you so much.
True support, April 02, 2013
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river
This program gives solid support and specific ways to parent successfully. The words from this program spoke right into my life and for the first time I felt like someone gave me the tools I needed to parent well in a desperate and hopeless situation.
 Our 15 year old Gifted Student rebels to a Flunker, April 01, 2013
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Reluctant to ask for help
Our beautiful daughter has always been spoiled by both parents. She has medical issues that are tough to deal with and so we had a tendency to baby her. We justified her stubborn, strong willed behavior with the fact that she was an outstanding A student and performing above her grade level. Grade 10, age 15 - screeching holt, we have an angry, verbally abusive teenager on our hands. She refuses to deal with any responsibility. She flunks a class and prefers to stay home in bed than go to school, so she may have to repeat the 10th grade. I\'ve heard about Total Transformation on the radio and decide to give it a try. We have spent SO much money on psychologist and therapist through the years and results were not favorable. My husband and I have learned that we can not do everything for our daughter and that it is OK for her to make wrong decisions and learn from them. We have actually gone days with out being abused. She has gone days with out missing school and she is completing her homework without our constant reminders. We have our moments, but I know how to react or NOT react. My husband is a slower learner but we can definately see a transformation.
Wonderful Product!, March 25, 2013
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Karen R.
Although I ordered this program with one of our children in mind, we found it to be helpful with BOTH our kids. It is fantastic for those kids we think of as "challenging" but it is really just great parenting information overall. We especially loved the 10 minute transformation disc and were absolutely floored the first time we tried one of the exercises and it worked! I cannot say enough great things about this program, and I have recommended it to many other families. It is full of common sense ideas that we just seem to have forgotten over time (or maybe we just needed a reminder that it's okay to be the parent). If you are on this website and reading this, you already know you have a situation at home that needs improvement. I was right where you are now, and things at our house are much better as a result of this program. If you are on the fence, make the leap because I promise you will be pleased with the results if you take the time to go through this program and try out the ideas. Not only will you have a better relationship with your child, you'll be a better communicator in all areas of your life. It's absolutely worth the money, time, and effort, and I would do it again in a hearbeat.
Unexpected results, March 21, 2013
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Jali
I initially ordered this program just because of my youngest child. I had no idea it would end up working so well for my 17 and 22 yr old children. I implemented the suggestions and changed my approach in speaking w/ my children and saw instant results w/ some common issues that always ended in a verbal tirade. I stood open mouthed and shocked that I received the desired results without a fight. Not to say it has been easy, I myself needed to retrain myself in how I approach and speak w/ my kids. I also pick my battles much better.
My youngest child whom I origionally ordered for, I was able to realize that there were bigger issues here, and that really prompt me to seek additional proffesionsal help. I also still use most of the techniques I've learned on my youngest in conjunction w/ the proffesionsal help she needed.
Review, March 20, 2013
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Kristy
The total transformation was a wonderful program, I continue to use it everyday. It is nice to go back and review the cds from time to time. I am so glad there is a program out there for our children. This has been a wonderful experience. Thank you so much
Tools for success , March 19, 2013
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Nettie
The total transformation has given me the tools I need to be an effective parent. I have often labelled myself as a bad parent but through this program I have learned that I am not a bad parent, rather I am a parent lacking effective tools to train my child to respect, obey and honor me. This program has been a life saver for me, I have not yet come to master every area and I believe it is a life long journey but I am now well on my way to being a more confident, in control parent.
Satisfied, March 17, 2013
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Pat
The system definitely has sound advice and information for all. It was convenient for me to listen during the day which pushed my husband to listen at night. I have been saying a lot of the things suggested but needed impartial support. Really tough time in teenagers lives and want to get it right
We are loving the results, March 08, 2013
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Mamma Marilyn
My husband and I were having constant strife with our younger daughter because of her disrespectfulness, lack of cooperation, sullen attitude, and disregard for our wishes. Since starting this program six weeks ago, we have seen a huge, positive change in our home. We are using the recommended parenting techniques and she is responding exactly as the program describes. It\'s so encouraging! Now we have the confidence that with repeated practice, we will continue to help her learn how to think through problems and act toward others so that she can be an effective adult.
Total Transformation, March 07, 2013
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Leslie
My child has Oppositional Defiant Disorder. After using the Total Transformation his behavior has improved and we continue to use the steps we have learned to continue to get better behavior! I would definitely recommend this program to anyone with a behavioral problem at home!
Truly unbelievable, March 06, 2013
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Trying Parents
This program really works. I was skeptical, but the yelling and arguing has stopped in our house. Our child has become much more responsible and respectful.
Just try it.
Satisfied Parent, March 06, 2013
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Debbie
The Total Transformation Program helped my husband and I manage the way in which we deal with our children. The program helped us identify the behaviors we wanted to change and how to do it successfully and without stress. It was most helpful with how not to fight over homework, how not to take the behaviors personally and to calm down, enjoy our children and manage the every day stresses. Our household is a calm place.
Young Adults with Behavior Problems, March 06, 2013
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Carol
My only regret with this program is that I didn\'t start it years ago with my sons. Total transformation is useful at any age of your children. As parents
we discovered many helpful tools in effective listening and communicating with our college age children. Yes, it has helped our sons to have a more positive out look at life. They respect us more and we respect them too!
Parent Review for Total Transformation, March 05, 2013
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Better than private therapy.
The Total Transformation has given me more valuable tools than any of the 6 child psyhologist ever did. I kept taking my kids ever week trying to fix them however the Total Transformation teaches parents how to fix themselves. It teaches how to recognize parenting strategies that are not working, understanding your child\'s problem, and then gives strategies that work. I would recommend this program to anyone who is looking for solid fool proof help in dealing with out of control children.
I was at the end of my rope!, March 05, 2013
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dee43015
Before I purchased this program my 2 children were a living, walking nightmare. I wasalmost to the point of signing my 6year old son over to his father. I cried myself to sleep most nights and became drug dependent. within the first day I began to notice changes. They were small, but boy was I amazed!! I would pay 3 times for it. He makes it easy to understand. He just lays it out right there in front of you.. I now have a relationship with my kids. No longer drug dependent. And I\'m a great mom. People tell me all the time. I talk about the program constantly.
A God-send, February 27, 2013
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Naomi
To Whom It May Concern: This program has solved mysteries and caused dialog that might not have ever been known or accomplished.
I feel that I know my children on a different level than before this program.
There is hope to those who have lost it. There are others way to communicate and to be relieved of the burden that you as a parent are carrying. You and your children can have a better relationship. It is possible. It\'s okay to realize that you as a parent made mistakes in the past, we\'re not perfect, but this program helps us to find our way clear of some parental bondages that we seem to put on ourselves. Take control of what seemly you have lost control of (ourselves). There are some strong messages in this program that will ring true and resound confirmations that will give you a sense of peace that you are finally going down the right path. It\'s never too late...
Hopefully 5 Stars Are Tops, February 26, 2013
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kelly
Nothing but goodness to say about the program and the people I\'ve spoken with. Not saying, my situation is fixed,because it\'s a work in progress. The parental support line is GOLD!!! I would go to work in a second for this Company, because I believe in what it\'s doing!
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