The Total Transformation has been helpful for the entire family. It has given me guidlines as a mother of where to draw the line and I don't feel responsible anymore for my adult childrens decisions. I've used it for a month. It hasn't been a Total transformation yet, but a very inpresive change.

love it. we are m aking progress...what a blessing. no meds did we have to use.thank u

As a mother of 4, with a large gap between siblings; I let a lot of my basic parenting knowledge be usurped to exhaustion and teenage persuasion. Your techniques have put me back on track. However,it is very hard to keep ones child on course to a positive life's experience. This I feel is due to societies pull, with all of it's immoralities it contains.
Also, with 2 teenage daughter's,close in age, I find it hard to get the truth out; if ever.
It is a never ending battle of gaining trust and finding the truth.

I have done the whole program and am now listening again. While it is not a "magic" or "miraculous" change, the TTP has helped me develop some strategies and feel much more in control. Before the program, I was reluctant to address my son's tantrums between incidents. Now I understand that this behavior won't just go away without specific strategies on my part. We have worked out rewards, consequences, and are doing the alternative response techniques. It's a lot of work, but it is helping when consistently applied. I appreciate the common sense and emphasis on accountability, responsibility and correcting faulty thinking. In the past I have made excuses for this child's behavior, but the TTP has helped me realize that this did not help us. Although I was reluctant to spend the $$ for this program, I am glad I did so.

I was in a bad place when I ordered the TT package and am now like a walking advertisement. I can't say enough about it. It has only been 2 months but we have had MAJOR improvements. My 15 year old rarely calls me names anymore and on the rare occasion she does she handles the punishment and is also apologetic. This has made things so much calmer in our household.

I am a family therapist who recommends your program to desperate parents who call in for appointments. It is excellent. If your program is not enough to solve their problem after they have listened to it, and tried it, then I book an appointment for them.

This was a tremendously clearly outline program. It gave direct instructions on how to address behaviors. I just wished it helped me with keeping my energy up with such a challenging child.

I could tell you everything this program has done for my family, but I'd just be repeating all of the testimonials we watched on the 1st DVD. Thank you so much for helping us get our son back!

I have had the system for a while, but only recently started *using* it. My son was failing in school because he simply refused to do his homework. After enumerating my expectations for the week's homework check, and having him repeat it to me so I knew HE knew and accepted what was expected, he failed to meet the reuirements we had agreed upon. He lost one weekend, and had the opportunity to 'try again' on Monday. I actually overheard him on the phone (which I did NOT take away, like I usually did) telling a friend, " I know it's my responsibility to do it, and I blew it." !! I almost squealed with joy!! And, it's only the FIRST week of actually *using* the program! And there was Very Little arguing when I told him he had lost his weekend...usually this was a screaming fit. I am Very Pleased with the results I have seen so far!

What a blessing! I had no idea so many people were dealing with my same issues. The analagies were what stuck in my brain. They were very helpful! I have told 12 more people about this program! I'm just sorry I didn't get it sooner.

Currently on lesson 5. The information is eye opening. My wife and I are very impressed with this realistic approach and common sense methods. I would have to describe it as an old school method with a new century influence. It really gets to the heart of how members of a society should respect themselves and others and take responsibility for their actions. These are excellent tools and I would recommend the program to all parents. Thank You

I wish this program was out when my kids were little. We as parents need help like this, no manual was given at birth. I feel better knowing that I am not alone with how my child is acting. I feel good knowing I can call at talk to somebody. My son is away a college but when he returns I feel more prepared to deal with what's ahead.

The program is easy to follow, the techniques are easy to use and so far we are seeing some success from using this program.

Working with the program I learned it is the whole family that needs to change their way of thinking and doing things to make the program successful. We have noticed a positive change in all of us since starting the program.

The voice on the CD is soothing and empowering at the same time. I felt supported and validated in my ability to appropriately discipline. The techniques worked wonders with both my 5 year old bio son and 17 year old foster child.

When I ordered the package we thought that we had an usual situation with our son. We were totally perplexed how our once loving and studious son turned into a lackluster, unmotivated and extremely disrespectful human being. The impact on our entire family was negative and disruptive.
A colleague of mine heard your ad on the radio and forwarded the link. I ordered the program and started listening right away. Although the instructions say to listen to one a week, I wanted to absorb as much as I could to see more immediate results. Things were BAD!! I listened to the Jump start, disc one and then the 10 quick tips (which was the best). I made some notes on a post- it and I keep one on my desk at work and another in my car. I immediately started using the techniques and started seeing results..by the time I got to disc three, I labelled myself as a negotiator (I always called myself the peacemaker)and immediatley started working on my behavior. I have found the choice of words, the "disengaging" from arguments, and making rules hard and fast have changed things dramatically. I will not say we have perfection but who decides what perfection is anyway? Our son's grades are improving, he is following rules without repetitive demands and our home is less chaotic and much happier. My next step is to have my husband listen to the CD's so he can have an understanding of my reasoning, my son's reaction and find the "peace" for himself as well.

I am still learning the discs and am finding them helpful with my son who is in and out of trouble, he's had part of his brain removed (R frontal lobe) due yo AVM at the age of 12. He is starting to make some better decisions but I have to REMIND him. He also has seizures now which prevent him from holding a job. SO he is on disability. It is hard and I don't always know how to handle things. Sometimes I excuse unacceptable behaviour because of his disability, but he won't have me around much longer, due to my serious health problems, and I sometimes think I am doing him a disservice letting him stay at home and stay lazy. I keep telling him to get an education, we live 2 blocks from a college and I feel there is no excuse not to continue his education so that he can eventually do something with his life. Blowin off steam!

It takes time to ingest everything at a week at a time pace, but the 10 things in One Minute CD should be listened to FIRST to ramp up the learning curve.
My teenager still has a way to go, but big change!

This program is excellent. It does however require alot of time,effort, and patience to work through it. This is no quick fix, but a challenging program that really does stop abusive behavior, but not overnight. Be prepared for things TO GET WORSE before they get better as your child challeges YOU to see what you are made of!Don't let your "normal" be abuse anymore!!The child will back down if you consistantly use the techniques over a period of weeks or months.

The program provides tools and real examples to help parent work with their children. I would recommend the program to all parents who are having difficulties with their children.

This is a wonderful program...My son is diagnosed as "likely to be ADHD" and though he is too young for some of the lessons to be applicable, they have given me great ideas for keeping his attitude from moving into a more defiant one later. I really need to get the Total Focus program to really get a handle on the ADHD issues. The Total Transformation seems to be more for defiant kids than ADHD kids.

I believe the Total Transformation Program is very workable. I just wish I could get my husband to use it! He actually listened to the first 2 or 3 CDs with me, but never put anything into practice.

I will just have to complete the CDs myself and do the best I can on my own.

The program is awesome. The transformation for me as a parent I like alot if we could only get all parents to try this maybe the kids today would have less tempers and mouths and more respect. As well as giving parents the technics to be less stressed. I havent mastered it all the time but i will. i love it. Thank you

I think the most valuable part of the transformation is the one that the parent goes through.
This program has really helped us work with our son and see ourselves and him in a different way

I'm still listening and learning. Life is too short to constantly be arguing. I listen more; I speak concisely; and I expect a response. I believe the children are learning more trust from this approach, and I feel more in control.