Mr. Lehman, you hit the nail on the head with program. My husband & I have been separated (domes viol)I got the kids he got help. Now I deal w/kids w/issues, I now know I'm not crazy w/messed up kids, just kids that need me more now than ever, w/more love to give and receive. It's hard to fix but what a relief that I can fix 90%. Thanks, thanks, thanks.

As a medical doctor, I have learned how to diagnose and treat many ailments. But I was unable to cope with my teenage son's bad behaviors. His back-talking, smart mouth, his unwillingness to do his homework and general disobedience were causing me to scream all the time. Our interactions were poor. His guidance counselor, and our minister both talked with him to no avail. I was ready to send him off to a boot camp. Finally out of desperation I ordered the Total Transformation Program I had heard advertised on the radio. What a fanatastic program! I am a huge fan of the behavior modification approach that Mr. Lehman espouses. We have seen some major improvements already. I have recommended the program to others suffering with poorly behaving children and the pain it brings to the whole family. I highly endorse this plan and it is worth every penny!

Although we are still implementing the techniques, we have seen some positive changes in our son.

Jonathan was put on Adderall and had a bad reaction to the drug. (heart) That's when I decided to buy your program. It has been a blessing to us along with alternative medicine. Thank you so much for The Total Transformaton Program because I don't know what we would have done without it.

My son (12 years old) and I have been extremely blessed since we received and started applying the program. Jonathan has always been a handful (compared to his three older sisters), but after his father died in a vehicle accident 7 years ago and suddenly ended a beautiful 23 year marriage and then after 4 years of being in a very emotionally abusive relationship with his step-father, whom we escaped from 1 year ago and I divorced him a month ago he became more than I could handle. After applying just the first cd, change for the better started happening. I have come along way in learning what to say and what not to say. Jonathan is dealing with his anger so well now that conflicts are at a minimum and are virtually non-existent. I haven't even finished the last two cd's because of a busy summer schedule and because I am listening to each one over and over in an effort to let it sink in and learn to apply it before I move on. Even when, in the heat of the moment, I say or do the wrong thing we still recover quickly and Jonathan is desirous to resolve things rather than drag things out, like he was accustomed to doing. The Total Transformation Program was worth every cent and has been the first thing that has been of any true lasting help. I had started out with a church counselor for help and after several months I could see that it was bad counseling. Then I tried professional counseling for both of us, and that went poorly also. In the meantime I was devouring every good book I could put my hands on and still I saw no lasting help. I was seriously ready to burn every book I had read and give up when my brother-in-law copied the info about your program from the internet and gave it to me. The rest is history. Thank you!!!!

This program is not only saving my insanity, it is mandatory for the mental and physical safety of my son's sibling! I began totally overwhelmed. I have listened over and over to this program and put these suggestions into place little by little. I can see immediate improvement. I have many years of hard work to come, especially since I have a son with a stronger will than I but I have a great tool. Years of therapy haven't brought me the results Mr. Lehman has brought me in a few short months! Thank you!

My 17yr old son suffered from a TBI 2 yrs ago. He's been angry and out of control since. The medical doctors would tell me not to make him mad. It got to the point where he was running the house, he was becoming physically abusive with me (mom) and began running away and was failing school. Out of desperation I found Total Transformation on line and sent for the free trial offer. It has literally saved my family and my sanity! I now feel confident as a parent. I know how to respond in most instances and when I don't I call the Parent Support Line. Everyone I've talked with has been extremely helpful to me. My son is responding well and knows I mean business when it comes to consequences. He does have a summertime reading program he is required to do and is doing well with it. I am nervous about school this fall and how things will go, but I'm not afraid to call the Parent Support Line several times in one day if necessary. I feel we have our lives back again! Thank you!!!

Practical. Strategical. To the point. Efficient. I recommend it for anyone who cares about the children of our society.

Thank you so much for teaching me better ways to handle my teens and communicate with them during times of stress. My outlook has changed tremendously since implementing even small parts of this program in my home. I would do it all again, the money I have paid for this program has no value in comparison to the knowledge I have gained.

I am pleased so far. I am finding that I have to listen to the discs more than omce since I have trouble retaining all of the tips. But, I do find it to be very helpful and most of it is common sense but we just don't do it.

The total transformatin has made our home a peacful place again.

Finally a program that is clear concise and most importantly lets parents know it is their job to do.
I had some of the pieces from other self help books and family life coaching sessions but your program tied it all together for us. I found this works at any level and not gave it a chance even though my child wasn't physical, using drugs or stealing. Often very intelligent kids become disruptive, rude and non compliant because their parents don't realize their responsibility to show them how to deal with criticism by teachers and classmates and the boredom that they experience in school.
I think this should be required learning of every parent of a teenager today!

PS - Did not use the support line or customer svc - thus no rating.

So far the program has been very informative and very useful. My kids are elementary school age so we are getting on the right track early on.

The concepts that me and my wife have learned are already making a difference with our children. We were at the end of our rope and this was our last hope. Things are not perfect, but we have a little of our sanity back and understand how our kids manipulate us into believing that we were not adequate as parents. We don't believe that lie anymore.

I appreciate James Lehman's no-nonsense, logical, step-by-step solutions for effective parenting. Changes are occurring slowly but surely. For the first time since I've had children, I feel very empowered and in control and am also learning to be a very effective and happy parent. Thank you!

I was reluctanct about purchasing this program but decided to purchase it after reading numerous reviews. It changed me and my family. i thought my son had problems, but realized that many of our issues spawned from my parenting style. I learned my parenting style and the style my son needed. Once I adjusted my thinking we immediately began to see changes and improvements. We are not out of the water yet, but we are swimming along the shoreline. Thank you.

Thank you for your program. I have been using it only for a short time and the results are amazing. Total Peace hasn't arrived yet, I know it is on it's way. The staff I have had contact with were excellent.

This is a very straight forward program that give very effective advice and information to parents. The program also provides on-going support via a newsletter and offer a support line which is wonderful. The cost of the program is within reach of most American families. We love it and wish we had it when we first discovered that our son had stopped responding to us with respect and things got more difficult.

We haven't worked our way through the entire program yet but the advice is sound and seems so common-sense. Thanks for bringing us back to the basics of responsibility and accountability and helping us cut through the manipulation and arguments!

Our duaghter has ODD. This program along with several books has got us on the road to recovery and made my wife and I confident again in our abilities. We both teach parenting classes and have two kids that people want to take home and adopt and we were confused. You have set us on the path to correcting behaviors and reccommending you series to our students with Kids like ours.

It is a fantastic system and has worked wonders for our 10 year old and our 13 year old. I feel less stressed and can actually enjoy our kids instead of arguing with them all the time! I like the newsletters as well. Thank you!

The program has not only helped us within our family but has helped me deal with people at work(limit setting/consequences). My only regret is I passed on the parental support line.

We are steadily seeing improvement with our son. He has come to realize that we mean what we say...and will follow through at all costs. What a difference this makes in a child's life.

I have referred the Total Transformation to two other individuals.

I have shared your website with many friends having difficulties with their children! I have seen a difference in the behavior of my 6 y/o autistic granddaughter and am very happy with the program.

i have not used all your techniques in the total transformation program, but the ones i have used have been awesome.