With 4 kids in a short amount of time, we did not realize how many of our problems were of our making. This has really opened our eyes to the fact that we got busy and got trained by the kids to certain unhealthy behaviors. Our kids and problems are not as bad as some but yet we knew they were not what they should be either and felt powerless to make changes. James has given us the information but even more importantly the tools to step back into the parenting role with confidence and knowledge. Thank you so much for this program. Please keep on doing what you do so well !!

We have seen a difference in our parental "sense" of guilt and feeling sorry. And, we don't react like we use to which in turn makes our teen "slightly confused and powerless with his demands". We are still working on it. It just takes time and dedication.

We are still a work in progress, but have seen monumental improvements. Although she still gets angry, she does what she is responsible for and that has made life easier. Now my husband and I can parent together, they was it should be.

I love this program and also the weekly newsletter. It is prefect for my family and after using it for 3 months I already see results.

We haven't made it through all the lessons in the program yet, but we are already seeing a difference in our daughter's behavior and attitude. We were becoming so frustrated because even though we were raising her in the same way as our other 3 children, our old "tried and true" parenting methods were not being effective on her. We realized we needed some new tools for her, and the Total Transformation Program gave us those tools and helped us to become more confident parents to our daughter and her unique needs.

This program helped me see how to better deal with my 13 year old son and his lack of responsibility, defiance and laziness. I also learned how I needed to modify my way of doing things to help him change for the better. The newsletters are very helpful, also.

Thus far I have really enjoyed the disc set. If I had one area that I would suggest additional work it would be in how to get spouses to work together more on the program. I realize that the audience includes many single parents but I still have a difficult time in getting my wife on the same page with some issues. I believe that it is in the way she was brought up in comparison to the way I was brought up. Her family life growing up was with an alcholic father and much shame. Our family was very active in athletics and other things. These different backgrounds have made for a challenging parenthood to say the least. Keep up the great work! Scott

I am the grandparent of the troubled 15-year-old who needs help. Her single mother however refused to participate so my review is only my opinion. I had it for two months and have returned it this week. I think it would have helped tremendously but I can only do my best for my granddaughter and pray for my daughter to change her attitude and become a real mom...

I keep the CDs in the car. I listen at least once a day. I bought my program almost a year and a half ago. It is a blessing.

My last daughter (of 4) is 14 yo. There is no greater blessing than tooling my parental skills. My entire family has benefitted from this amazing gift.

Thank you, James Lehman and all the staff @ Total Transformation!!!

How can I thank you for the knowledge you have shared with us? If we took our son to a counselor we would not have the foundation we needed ourselves to work with our son.We have a better understanding on what we need to do!
Thank you Mr. Lehman.

I gave this to my daughter and her husband to work with their 3 little boys. They are so happy to have this resource to manage these diverse personalitites.

Like everything what you put in what you get out. It's a great product and has helped us gauge our effectiveness as parents. It's provided us with a couple of tools to help.
Thanks

I have a BS in child psychology but was not making any headway with my grandchildren who had been allowed to become extremely manipulative and uncooperative. The Total Transformation Program was an answer to prayer. Friends, teachers, and family have all commented on the marked improvement in their behavior and life is a lot more pleasant!

So far the total transformation has helped me think about my response for a particular situation before responding. I respond in a calmer way than I previously did and am sticking to my guns when I make a decision on how to handle a situation. When my 12 year old son protests, I am nipping it in the bud and sticking to the issue at hand. I continue to repeat myself until he calms down and realized that we are going to do things a particular way and there will be consequences for his actions. He has lost privileges several times but complies with the requirements and seems to be getting better with his pre-teen attitudes. I have only listened to 2 CDs but am hopeful that things will continue to improve and I continue in the program.

We began to have problems with our oldest son (5 yrs) when we found out our youngest son (2 yrs) was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It was during that time that our oldest started kindergarten and transitioned to the older before and after school care class. He was getting in trouble all of the time at school and day care. I was at my wits end when people kept mentioning accessing the mental/behavioral health referral system with our insurance company. I was so distraught. I made one appointment with a child psychologist and my husband and I were very uneasy that before even meeting my son they were talking about ADHD and medication. I made the decision that we were not going back there and were not going to have our son meet with her. We began using the program and listening to the CDs. It was amazing! It was so apparent that I had ineffective parenting skills. When using the tools given, it was so much easier to manage our children. We have put the tools into practice when dealing with both of our children and it is working wonderfully. We still have moments because it is more difficult to train yourself than it is your children. So it is necessary to ensure you are consistent! If you mess up, admit your wrongs and ask for forgiveness and move on. It has worked beautifully!

So far, I have found the Total Transformation program useful. My granddaughter is quite young (6) and some of the instructions do not apply, but I expect they will in the future.

This program has given my daughter some very useful tips and insight as to the unspoken messages and dialog going on between her and her children. I highly recommend.

Thanks to your program, which due to physical illness of my son, I have not yet completed...it is sort of on hold at the moment, I have seen remarkable differences in the way that my troubled child as well as my other two children behave. I actually enjoy them now...and I have only made it through lesson 3. I will complete the program in due time...but am very happy thus far. Just telling my son he was being abusive was the kick off to it all. Had I only known that I could make that much difference by just saying that...I would have done it a long time ago. I have recommended the program to many other parents. Thanks so much for sharing your expertise.

Tracy Grimes-Lane

This program is great - I only wish I had more hours in the day to devote to it. I am only on disc 3, but have already seen changes - more importantly I am gaining my confidence as a parent back. I also love the newsletter - there is so much relevant information there.

I haven't tried the parent support line because I just haven't known, really, what to use it for (i.e. what question to call with!)

I was at my wits end with my 15 year old daughter. She went from an A student to failing 4 classes, screaming and cussing at my husband and me (in public and at home), and making everyone in the family miserable. We went to a psychologist and a psychiatrist for help. We went to numerous counciling sessions and followed their advice, but did not see any change in her behavior. I didn't know where to turn and heard your commercial. I ordered this program without a lot of faith that it would work. However, I listened to the DVD's and religiously followed the program. The difference in my daughter is unbelievable. She is more respectful, grades are back to A's, and there is finally peace in my household. I actually enjoy being with my daughter again. Thank you for this unbelievable program. I highly recommend it. It is a life changing program.

We have finished about half of the program and have already seen positive changes in our son. We look forward to the remainder of it.

I love this program. It has brought peace to the house once again. I have learned so much. I give myself refreshers by relistening to the disc when I notice I am reverting to my old ways. Thank you so much!!!! I have a younger child I am using this on also and it is helping with her also.You are amazing. I wish everyone could have the opportunity to use this system.

I am a therapist and have found the information contained in the discs very helpful and am utilizing a few of the techniques.

I bought this program for my daughter and grandchildren. I watched the CD's before giving it to her and think it's a fabulous program. I see so many examples of when it would be useful for her. I am hoping that she uses it and remind her to use it, call the hotline, and just work the program. It would solve many of her problems with her children, but I can only do so much.

I have to tell you though, the statement made in one of the CD's about being a good enough parent relieved guilt that I had been carrying around for years...so, although the program was not directly for me, I want to thank you. I wish the program were required study for anyone who even thought about having children.

We have been using the Total Transformation program for a couple of months now and noticed a trememdous improvement in our son's attitude and response to us. The techniques are straight forward and very effective - right from the first cd. We have received comments from other family members who have also noticed the change. It has been a great investment for us.