Your cd's are very helpful and apply to many different kinds of kids and ages of kids. The key to success is to believe that the results are obtained by being committed in following threw with the consequences. Thanks, Phil

I think this program is wonderful. I have listened to all the discs, taken notes, have them posted around the house, etc. However, after using the program for about 3 months now, we have seen no results. My son has been diagnosed with ADHD, ODD and PTSD. Let me just say it's a tough road. We struggle daily. And nothing works. He doesn't care about consequences, disciplinary actions we or the school takes... nothing. He is so disrespectful to everyone. I could go on and on for hours, but I wont. I will just say that I think the program is wonderful and probably works for a lot of people; I just dont think it's going to work for me.

Although we are only on Disc 4, we have benefitted in some ways. At this time, early in the program, we aren't always as effective as we'd like to be, but keep trying. The Support Line is wonderful. I hope that I have another opportunity to write a review when we have had time to practice information from all of the CDs.

Thank you.

Sandi Wells

We thought our seven year old son was going through a very long phase of bad behavior. Somewhere along the line his thinking became distorted, he started not liking himself because he could not control his anger and frustration. He had no problems at school or at friends houses, it was just with his immediate family.

After a year of therapy both group and individual, I tried this program. It has helped greatly. He is still seeing a therapist for self esteem issues, but he is cooperative, polite, loving and sweet 97% of the time now.

Thank you

This program has been so helpful for my husband and I. I've witnessed changes in how we are parenting our son, and am impressed with the results! No more, "I'll do it later", from my son; no more yelling from me. I've recommended this program for other parents, who are also struggling with their children.

The program was very excellent and gave me a whole new perspective on how to gain control of my home. I am ever so indebted to Mr. Lehman and all of the staff.

Thanks so much for everything.

Susan Gerlach

The information in Total Transformation is not magic, nor secret knowledge. It is a reminder that kids do not come with an instruction book. Total Transformation is as close to that missing book of instructions that so many of us need. It gives us the reminders that there is a better way to handle situations if given the forewarning that you need to think of concequences before you react. You need to respond.

I am a counselor and parent educator. I have used the concepts from Total Transformation with my families and students. The biggest help for me was in delineating the effective parenting roles from the ineffective ones. Also, the coaching role. I have really enjoyed using - How will we know it is working, How will we know if it isn't; What will we do if it is working, What will we do if it isn't. Makes life very crystal clear. No mysteries.

Excellent program!
Parents need this today more than ever. Using this for adult children..I only wish I had it when they were younger.

This information has been life-altering in my thinking and the way I work with children. It is very down-to-earth and reminds us who the parents are and who the kids are.

With 4 kids in a short amount of time, we did not realize how many of our problems were of our making. This has really opened our eyes to the fact that we got busy and got trained by the kids to certain unhealthy behaviors. Our kids and problems are not as bad as some but yet we knew they were not what they should be either and felt powerless to make changes. James has given us the information but even more importantly the tools to step back into the parenting role with confidence and knowledge. Thank you so much for this program. Please keep on doing what you do so well !!

We have seen a difference in our parental "sense" of guilt and feeling sorry. And, we don't react like we use to which in turn makes our teen "slightly confused and powerless with his demands". We are still working on it. It just takes time and dedication.

We are still a work in progress, but have seen monumental improvements. Although she still gets angry, she does what she is responsible for and that has made life easier. Now my husband and I can parent together, they was it should be.

I love this program and also the weekly newsletter. It is prefect for my family and after using it for 3 months I already see results.

We haven't made it through all the lessons in the program yet, but we are already seeing a difference in our daughter's behavior and attitude. We were becoming so frustrated because even though we were raising her in the same way as our other 3 children, our old "tried and true" parenting methods were not being effective on her. We realized we needed some new tools for her, and the Total Transformation Program gave us those tools and helped us to become more confident parents to our daughter and her unique needs.

This program helped me see how to better deal with my 13 year old son and his lack of responsibility, defiance and laziness. I also learned how I needed to modify my way of doing things to help him change for the better. The newsletters are very helpful, also.

Thus far I have really enjoyed the disc set. If I had one area that I would suggest additional work it would be in how to get spouses to work together more on the program. I realize that the audience includes many single parents but I still have a difficult time in getting my wife on the same page with some issues. I believe that it is in the way she was brought up in comparison to the way I was brought up. Her family life growing up was with an alcholic father and much shame. Our family was very active in athletics and other things. These different backgrounds have made for a challenging parenthood to say the least. Keep up the great work! Scott

I am the grandparent of the troubled 15-year-old who needs help. Her single mother however refused to participate so my review is only my opinion. I had it for two months and have returned it this week. I think it would have helped tremendously but I can only do my best for my granddaughter and pray for my daughter to change her attitude and become a real mom...

I keep the CDs in the car. I listen at least once a day. I bought my program almost a year and a half ago. It is a blessing.

My last daughter (of 4) is 14 yo. There is no greater blessing than tooling my parental skills. My entire family has benefitted from this amazing gift.

Thank you, James Lehman and all the staff @ Total Transformation!!!

How can I thank you for the knowledge you have shared with us? If we took our son to a counselor we would not have the foundation we needed ourselves to work with our son.We have a better understanding on what we need to do!
Thank you Mr. Lehman.

I gave this to my daughter and her husband to work with their 3 little boys. They are so happy to have this resource to manage these diverse personalitites.

Like everything what you put in what you get out. It's a great product and has helped us gauge our effectiveness as parents. It's provided us with a couple of tools to help.
Thanks

I have a BS in child psychology but was not making any headway with my grandchildren who had been allowed to become extremely manipulative and uncooperative. The Total Transformation Program was an answer to prayer. Friends, teachers, and family have all commented on the marked improvement in their behavior and life is a lot more pleasant!

So far the total transformation has helped me think about my response for a particular situation before responding. I respond in a calmer way than I previously did and am sticking to my guns when I make a decision on how to handle a situation. When my 12 year old son protests, I am nipping it in the bud and sticking to the issue at hand. I continue to repeat myself until he calms down and realized that we are going to do things a particular way and there will be consequences for his actions. He has lost privileges several times but complies with the requirements and seems to be getting better with his pre-teen attitudes. I have only listened to 2 CDs but am hopeful that things will continue to improve and I continue in the program.

We began to have problems with our oldest son (5 yrs) when we found out our youngest son (2 yrs) was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It was during that time that our oldest started kindergarten and transitioned to the older before and after school care class. He was getting in trouble all of the time at school and day care. I was at my wits end when people kept mentioning accessing the mental/behavioral health referral system with our insurance company. I was so distraught. I made one appointment with a child psychologist and my husband and I were very uneasy that before even meeting my son they were talking about ADHD and medication. I made the decision that we were not going back there and were not going to have our son meet with her. We began using the program and listening to the CDs. It was amazing! It was so apparent that I had ineffective parenting skills. When using the tools given, it was so much easier to manage our children. We have put the tools into practice when dealing with both of our children and it is working wonderfully. We still have moments because it is more difficult to train yourself than it is your children. So it is necessary to ensure you are consistent! If you mess up, admit your wrongs and ask for forgiveness and move on. It has worked beautifully!