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Recent Reviews of The Total Transformation® Program
3rd party reviews of the Total Transformation® Program from hundreds of parents who have tried it
The Total Transformation® Program, created by renowned behavioral therapist James Lehman, offers practical, real world solutions for the most challenging problems parents face such as defiance, disrespect, lying and cursing, acting out in school, unmotivated behavior and more.
What's Included:
- - Jump Start DVD
- - Parent's Workshop DVD
- - 7 Audio Lesson CDs
- - 116 Page Workbook
- - Bonus Audio CD
James Lehman is giving away thousands of his best selling Total Transformation Programs for FREE! But only for a limited time. Just order the program, then complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey. We’ll give you a full refund of the program price (excluding shipping). You keep the program forever for FREE!
September 02, 2010Review by : Grandmother Tolle
After following all suggestions to the letter, including a written contract which my 18 year old grandson signed without protests, he decided to move out on his own after 3 weeks when he realized that all guidelines were steadfast. This, in my opinion, was not a failure. We were able to part with love and goodwill without rancor on either side, and continue to have a close relationship. Yes, he has lessons that life will teach him, but we feel good knowing that our part was in keeping with healthy parenting. No regrets. Without your program we may have given in and we could have lived in a state of frustration and worry.
Thank you for making a challenging situation easier for our family.
September 01, 2010Review by : Mary98
We have 4 kids ranging from 17 to 9. It was great to listen to the CD's and realize that we are experiencing normal thing from our children and that a lot of there actions and reactions are ways to control how we react.
August 31, 2010Review by : Amy
My 13 yo son has multiple heart problems which caused me to treat him differently than our other son. As he got older, his behavior became worse. He became defiant, demanding and went from being an A student to almost flunking. I sent away for the program. The 1st cd resulted in great improvement. We are slowly going through the program. Our son is happier and learning how to handle problems.
August 30, 2010Review by : babeechka
James has a great style of delivery of information for parents and educators. I am familiar with his techniques and effective parenting skills; his simplifying of this is wonderful. Was a great review for me, too.
I bought this program to help my son and daughter-in-law; the changes in a short amount of time have been very good. Challenges continue, but they are communicating more precisely and consistently with their 13 and 11 yr old sons. The kids are testing, but the parents are armed and more confident, calmer, consistent. What a difference!
I wrote down the 10 1-minute tips to share with other parents. These are super. A short list of these included in the workbook would be helpful.
I work with many Spanish speaking parents; might a version be available sometime in Spanish? Also, more DVD's are welcome. Many of my families are visual learners. I personally like the audio CD's for my car, but many families are more geared to a TV format. Sad but true. (My Spanish daughter-in-law turns on the tapes, but doesn't really "hear" them.)
I was sad to hear that James has passed away. His experience and reinterpretation of effective parenting skills is so helpful and well presented for use by untrained folks as well as for therapists like myself.
Thank you for these excellent tools and support. I didn't use the parent line nor did I need Customer Service. I am confident that these are also excellent.
July 27, 2010Review by : RogerW
This was truly a great program. It gives you hope and specific things a parent can do help transform their children. Awesome results, and encouraging hope!
July 25, 2010Review by : Todd McGiffin
Keeping the subject clearly in view and the conversation on point with no rabbit trails; THE TOTAL TRANSFORMATION makes raising children childproof. Kids are quick to successfully wrestle control from their grandparents but Dr. Lehman teaches the verbal moves and actions that give parents/grandparents significant advantage for grand success. How do we know we're winning? Because we have a pleasant, smooth, old time family with happy times that stem from old time respect of old time boundaries.
July 22, 2010Review by : still learning
I am a busy mother of two ages 14 and 6, the program helps me with both children, who offer me challenges in different ways, not to mention my input to other family and friends. Once I was able to see what I was doing wrong and realizing everyone, including children are totally responsable for their own behavior, and consequences, it became clear to me that I needed to take a different approach to my parenting technique.
July 20, 2010Review by : Happy Mom
From the first video I viewed I could see that it would help me make a difference in the way I helped my boys in the way they dealt with problems. It helped me identify triggers and ways to manage the feelings and behaviors. I see a difference in them, but I had to look at myself also I thought I knew how to parent and found out I never had the right tools I was working it all wrong. Thanks to the total transformation program I can see how if I know how to do it right my boys will learn how to do it right also.
July 16, 2010Review by : happy
TOTAL TRANSFORMATION IS A WONDERFUL PROGRAM FOR ANY PARENT TO HELP THEIR CHILDREN BEHAVE. NO MATTER WHAT THE PROBLEM IT CAN BE DEALT WITH THROUGH THIS PROGRAM. I HAVE LEARNED NOT TO YELL AT MY GRANDCHILDREN AND WORK THROUGH THEIR BEHAVIORS. I AM A LITTLE SLOW BUT EVERYTHING I HAVE TRIED IS WORKING. WE JUST NEED TO BE CONSISTENT. THE PROGRAM WORKS. I AM THANKFUL MY SISTER GOT THE PROGRAM FOR ME TO HELP MY GRANDCHILREN. ANN MARIE
July 16, 2010Review by : Guy Pilote
Excelent advice. I am very happy with what I read.
July 15, 2010Review by : Zane J
Before we decided to buy the Total Transformation, I was seriously considering a military school or summer boot camp for my son. I am so glad I went with the program because it showed us how to implement long lasting changes in our son not how to "do time". Our lives have been changed for the better dramatically. You will not regret it!
July 15, 2010Review by : JaneHupp
Your program was invaluable in helping us guide our troubled teenager through her problems. I really wish we had had that information when our older children were growing!
July 15, 2010Review by : Peace at Last
Since using the Total Transformation we have seen a lot of omprovement with our kids. The only problem we have is that we have several foster kids and it has been a challenge to deal with them all at once. So much so that we have never gotten around to getting help from the support line. I feel that without this program we would have given up on getting any improvment and sent them packing!
July 14, 2010Review by : motheroftwosons
I was desperated because of my 7 year old strong will child. The Total Transformation Progran had lift off the guilt from me and helped me feel better about my parenting; however, I found it was so general for my particular situation. I ended up buying a another set of DVD about consequences. I like the 2nd one better since it went in detail and clear on how to deal with my child's noncompliance.
July 14, 2010Review by : agl
This program helped us to utilize more effective communication skills. The techniques have successfully brought our family together into the harmony we once enjoyed. It takes daily practice and an investment of time, but it is well worth the efforts. Thanks to your program, we have our son back!
July 09, 2010Review by : ESVAHokie
The Total Transformation Program made a big difference in our home. I really appreciate the fact that James goes beyond sharing the concepts. He gives scripts to help you along. He also breaks everything down into steps that build on each other. I'm on a very tight budget and normally don't spend money on CD Programs. I purchased the program after reading several of his articles and determining that his approach makes so much sense and I find myself spending LESS ENGERGY on discipline. Thank you James! You will be deeply missed!
July 08, 2010Review by : Florian
The total transformation helped guide us as parents to gain control of ourselves. We could then help our children to calm down and to solve their problems with less agruments/talking back.
July 08, 2010Review by : Relieved Mom
I stumbled onto the infomercial at 5 am one morning. My husband was on a business trip and I couldn't fall back to sleep. When I turned on the TV, there was The Total Transformation Program Infomercial and I almost turned it right off because I wasn't going to be "suckered" into getting anything from one of the commercials. Something made me watch. After hearing parents testimonies I found myself hysterical because I was going through everything they were describing. My almost 16 year old daughter was wrecking havoc in our home for almost a year and a half and I was constantly feeling like I was without hope. There was constant arguing, disrespectfulness, uncaring, selfishness, not being nice, and so on. I really thought there wasn't any hope. After watching and crying throughout the infomercial, I reached for the phone. I thought, I had nothing to lose and everything to gain. If what James and these other parents were telling me was the truth, then it would be the best $300 I could ever spend. I decided not to tell anyone in my family, except my mother, that I was doing this. I wanted to make sure my daughter didn't say something like "don't try that program on me". I wanted everyone to just think I had gotten these ideas on my own. Well I devoured each of the teachings in the program and began instituting lessons as I learned them and became comfortable. It was up and down in the beginning but all of a sudden, I started to have more good days than bad. Even my husband, who doesn't even know I got this program, noticed the changes. Here's what changed:
1) she stopped cursing-this was actually the very first change
2) if she begins to get a bit fresh to me, she can stop
3) it's been almost 5 months and I think we might have had 2 arguments. I called the help line and they told me that it's common to fall off the bandwagon but get back up and get back on track
4) I actually enjoy being with her now.
5) she's nicer to her sisters and even spends some time with them
6) she will play games with me and when my husband travels she will ask to watch a movie with me
7) she doesn't even argue with me as much
8) she talks to me about her friends and shares things with me that she hasn't done in almost a year and a half
9) she also spends time with my mom and my mom has noticed the drastic change in her. My mom lives with us so she knows what she was like
Every so often, we have a rough patch but we always work it out. It's a work in progress but I have my daughter back and I like being with her which I never thought I would. In fact, she has invited a bunch of her friends over for an impromptu party tomorrow. She hasn't done that in a year and a half.
Thank God for The Total Transformation Program!
July 08, 2010Review by : BeenThere
Total Transformation cut through five frustrating years of diagnoses, medications, and behavior therapy. Our preteen daughter was diagnosed as bipolar, then ADD, then ODD, given a long list of medicines to try, but we never got a plan of how to actually help her at home. It seemed we only spent time in the psychologist's office discussing how difficult it was, but no plan of action. Total Transformation gave us action items, a plan, and support. We implemented consequences, discovered her real issue is with problem-solving, and we learned it is OK to abort a fight with our daughter! The change is slow but sure, and we no longer feel anxious about how to handle her outbursts and tantrums. Highly recommend this program to any parent who is feeling hopeless about their child's behavior!
July 08, 2010Review by : Mom of three adopted kids!
My husband and I were at the end of our robe in parenting our three adopted kids. All have a host of labels, tramas and extreme neglect for their first three to five years of living in this world. We had tried everything. Really! We have read over 80 books on child development and parenting subjects. We even traveled to talk personally with Doctors and experts. Have attended seminar after seminar. Theraptist and counselors too!Nothing we tired seemed to make a difference. Then our prayers were answered when I saw the Total Transformation Ad on a web site and clicked on it. I listened to some free audio and read practically all the articles on the site. Even though the program is expensive we decided to give it a try. The money back garentee sold it as well. I can not begin to tell you the dramatic and positive changes our family has and is going through because of James Leaman's Total Transformation program. The greatest change was in myself and my husband which of course allowed for a dramtic change in our kids. We are totally transformed. It is a daily journey but when I feel myself slipping into old ways which presents it self by my kids behavior, I get the CD's out and listen away!The program saved my family - saved my life.
July 07, 2010Review by : David in Colorado
This is a great program and can provide real help for families in trouble. It makes you assess what you are doing or NOT doing and change those patterns that are not effective. When implemented, and 'stuck too' this can make a real difference.
July 04, 2010Review by : SE
Dear Parents,
We have younger children, and wished to intervene earlier rather than later in their periodic belligerance. This program has been exceptionally helpful in teaching concrete, respectful, behaviorally specific techniques for confronting and encouraging change of undesired interactions. Staff assist and guide you through specific issues on the Parental Support line. Family time is calmer and more enjoyable now, and the balance of power has shifted back to us as parents. We highly recommend this program!
July 04, 2010Review by : Dancing Debbie
I went into the program ready to give up on being a better parent.... I am glad I did not because now I feel like I have the tools to be the parent I had hoped to be. Use the tools and just keep trying, the results you see will be worth it!
July 01, 2010Review by : gymtrix
The Total Trnasformation Program is so valuaable that I reccomend it to EVERYONE I meet complaining about their children's misbehavoir!
It is so good at helping parents/adults AND children discover there are ways of talking that 'communicate' intended messages clearly and unemotionally. You see, it is the 'emotional' message that ALL people hear FIRST.....then IF there is enough trust and history they will sometimes hear and understand the intended message! This program helps to deliver the intended messager FIRST and to limit the emotional message impact upon communications.
WHAT A GREAT WAY TO TALK WITH ANYONE!
Thanks,
Bart Wyman
June 27, 2010Review by : williamsfamily
My son had moved out of my house and into my parent's house because we could not get along. His behavior was so horrible that the only choices I felt I had were The Total Transformation or Military School.
I tried the total transformation, and did not see too much of a change at first. I kept listening to the cd's on my way to work and on my way home (sometimes more than twice) and kept applying the strategies when my son came to visit, which was 2 days a week.
My son noticed that I stopped yelling at him and was surprised that he could not push my buttons and get the same reaction that he used to.
I would make myself very clear and follow through even though, as a mom, I did not want to. I wanted to give in but instead stood my ground.
The changes happened slowly, but now we can communicate better and my son no longer runs the house.
After showing my son that his dad and I could parent him better, he was more than happy to come back home. It took 6 weeks of work but he is where he belongs.
I still use the cd's as a reminder and encouragement of the tasks and changes that need to be kept in place so that we don't end up where we were.
I have recommended this program to several people and will not stop telling people about it. It is a life saving change.
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