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Hundreds of parents, grandparents, teachers and professionals tell us how The Total Transformation Program has fixed challenging child behaviors. Read what they have to say about our program below. Also, check out our Blog, where we share the stories of families who are using The Total Transformation Program.

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starnever too old to learn, September 15, 2014
Review by : mswoon

My son is now 30 years young with three children of his own. For many years, I wanted to get the Total Transformation whilst my son was in his teen years and living at home. As a single mom it just seemed impossible to dedicate any extra money to this endeavor. As a grandmother I became very concerned about my son's behavior with his children, his wife, and me. I learned about boundaries and consequences and most importantly how I've never quite understood it enough to implement it during childrearing. In fact, what is due when confronted by my son was to confront back. Thereby, showing (in my mind) my parental strength. This was all wrong! All came to head this past summer when I was providing a vacation with my sons family just a few weeks before the planned trip, my son verbally abused me yet again. This timing was coincidental to my finishing up the T T program. Something inside me clicked and i called off the trip citing that I "just didn't care to be with my son." It ruined everyone's anticipated fun, I was the bad guy. The babies were not gonna enjoy the beach and boardwalk and rides, all because of my "drama", according to my son. I was so guilty, I cried. But, somewhere deep inside, I regained strength through this action. My son found that I had a boundary and limits and that there was a consequence. He has been nicer since. He's been curbing his speech. I'm hoping that I'm teaching him how to be with his children and wife. I haven't started the "Calm Parent" yet and I know that it will be beneficial to all of us. I did learn also to state my case and walk away. I keep implementing the little things that James talks about. Better late than never! Maria Messina

starSo amazed!, September 14, 2014
Review by : Jessie

I was amazed at the answers I started getting when I asked my child, "What were you thinking before you did that?" instead of "Why did you do that?" Instead of "I don't know." I got real answers, he was really thinking, but he had faulty thinking that needed correction. I tended to ask "why" back at him because that was what he always asked about everything, but it wasn't productive, it kept us from growing, and kept me frustrated. Now I have a tool I use and it works!

starnot for young kids, September 11, 2014
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I'm incredible disappointed in this program it was of very little help to me. what they don't tell you is that it is mainly geared towards teenagers. what if you have a 6 year old? I have all the problems of a teenager and my daughter is only 6. They made it seem like it would be helpful but 90% of the suggestions were related towards teens. not only that but the get it free thing was a scam. I sent my survey in and I never got my money back. I cannot recommend this product.
Response from Customer Service

Dear TTCrosby,
We’re very sorry to learn that our program has disappointed you. We commend you for taking action to help your 6 year old, and we wish we could have helped you. The techniques in the program are intended to help children ages 5-18 and have indeed helped many parents of young children. Our Parental Support Line coaches work with parents of young children to help them adapt the program techniques to young children. We see that you did have access to our PSL service for a short time. Please know that the service is always available for you to resume at any time. Sometimes the program is simply not a fit. This is why we very much appreciate constructive feedback we receive from customers in their feedback surveys. According to our records, we never received your completed feedback survey. We are very interested in reading your feedback, and if you have a copy of the completed survey you mailed in, we will gladly honor the terms of the offer. Please contact our Customer Service team at 1-800-460-2253. We will be happy to help you. Your success with your child is our common goal.

starHow could I take it for free when it is priceless?, September 11, 2014
Review by : palmer227

we signed up for the free offer, but after listening to the discs of James and co., working in the workbook and implementing these practices with our 5 young children, I didn't feel right getting it for free. The program is magnificent. I'd recommend it to all. Now is it going to be made available in Spanish? As a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner, I'd love to recommend it to all my patients or their parents that is. Most of us can't get into counseling weekly, but with this program, these resources can come right to us! Highly recommended.

starGreat program, September 09, 2014
Review by : Iowa mom

My co-worker had used the Total Transformation program. She suggested I try it. Although it is very time intensive, the results are worth it. It has helped me change for the better as a parent and as a result has helped my children change for the better.

starVery impressed!, September 09, 2014
Review by : Impressed grandmother

I purchased this program for my daughter and her family. After an unexpected divorce, she had some problems with her two daughters. It begins with parenting transformation. It's hard work, and takes commitment, but the results are worth it. We have seen an amazing change in the girls, especially with regards to respect and their ability to manage frustration. I am a Family Psychiatric NP, and I often recommend this program to the parents of some of my child and adolescent patients.

starAttitude, September 09, 2014
Review by : Mom of teen boys

Dr. Lehman says you need to pay attention to the child's behavior, not his attitude. But with the help of these CDs I am changing my attitude, and that is changing everything. I no longer see my child's previous hard life as an excuse for bad behavior now. When I say something I mean it. And my child seems to notice the difference.

starDon't miss this!, September 09, 2014
Review by : NotionView

When I purchased this program, I did so for my sister. She had a very stressful home life with a 19-year-old daughter and a granddaughter who were both big challenges. I waited for her to use the program and she kept making excuses why she didn't have time. Towards the end of the year, I pushed her and she finally started to pay attention. The changes were immediate. She is still working on it, but her life has improved dramatically! Here is the best part, however. I used the program myself, even though I didn't have children! I was intrigued by what I learned and started implementing the techniques in my business. I have 10 employees and I found I had no control over my staff. I wasn't being treated seriously and my direction was being ignored. I began to use the methods in my own business and saw a dramatic improvement! I strongly suggest that ANYONE, with or without children, use the program! It has been nothing short of miraculous for me in the way I handle my own life and how people regard me and how I see myself. It is truly empowering!

starSomething for every parent and every child..., September 06, 2014
Review by : College Prof

The Total Transformation Program has it all in an easy to use learning system. The videos provide a multitude of tools for parents to use for a variety of behaviors/situations. These can be used as a means of prevention, discipline, and long term positive results. The best part of The Total Transformation Program is that the age, gender, and the severity are different which gives something for all people viewing the materials. In fact, I have used some of the tools in my own classroom in order to maintain structure and order without disruption. Last, but not least, I absolutely loved the Empowering Parents Newsletter via email. These are great because I would print and read whenever I had a free moment. The articles often contained topics like recent trends, schools, gender differences, and like the entire system, providing a better means to parenting and acquiring the desired behavior. As an educator and a single mother of 3 sons, I would not hesitate to recommend The Total Transformation program. I am lucky because my boys have been "good kids". Still, The Total Transformation Program gave me ideas, skills, and reasons to make sure they stayed that way.

starGreat Program!, September 03, 2014
Review by : edb

I found this program to be very helpful. I think the most important thing I learned is follow through! Thank you for all of the help!

starparents care, September 01, 2014
Review by : garycopes

i which i had ran across this sooner, so many parents need this, like asap. i work at an academy in fort stewart ga. youth chanllenge academy. this program really helps me me and the school, in giving parent back a better student/ child. the academy is for the at risk kid, we have parents that are at risk. while the child is in rolled in the academy, parents should be in rolled in this course the total transformation program (total transformation, family). thank you guys so much, your helping me to turn these kid and parents around. thanks again

starDon't waist your money!, September 01, 2014
Review by : NO HELP IN Alabama

A RIPOFF of your $300!!! A wast of time, ( if you have any spare time) to lessen to the DVDs . They don't tell you anything on how to deal with your child.
Response from Customer Service

Dear No Help in Alabama,
We’re very sorry to hear that our program has disappointed you. We understand how little time parents have in a day, especially when they are struggling with their child.
Because of that, we want you to know that we are here to help you. Please don’t give up. When you ordered The Total Transformation Program, you chose the option that allows you a year to complete the program, fill out your feedback survey and receive a refund of the product price. Given that you ordered in early July, you still have time to use the program at a pace that works for you. Our Customer Service team is here to answer any questions you have about your survey along the way. You can also get help from our Parental Support Line coaches. They work with parents every day to implement the techniques in the program with their children. Access to our Support Line is always available by calling Customer Service at 1-800-460-2253.
Please know that we are here for you and want to see you succeed. In the next 10 months, we can help you to reach your goals with your child.

starFrom Pit Bulls to Great Danes, August 30, 2014
Review by : Grandmama

These boys are smart, active, and have ADHD, but are as different as day and night. This program helped us to listen to them and how each responded to praise, reprimands, and restrictions. What worked for one, didn't work for the other. Respectfulness for each other has improved greatly. They don't quarrel and fight like they did before the program and I feel are a much improved family all around and still improving. Program was clear and **never called the parental support line rated it average. I would recommend this program.

starGlad I got this, August 28, 2014
Review by : 2kidders

Total transformation put things into perspective. It helped me to see that my child isn't helpless but instead is trying to be in control. The program gave me skills to train my child on how to handle situations and control himself. That he would feel better once he learned to control himself and not others or the situation.

starLoved it!, August 26, 2014
Review by : ttlover

This really worked for my family!

starhelped and continues to help my son and my whole family, August 25, 2014
Review by : Audra

we order the total transformation program and were so pleased the we got on the parents support line we continue to use both products have suggested the program to other people and Im so please with the program I would like to work for the company, promoting this product for families. Every one should know these principles

starStill in progress, August 25, 2014
Review by : Carol Strobel

I am understanding how the program works and trying to fit it into our life, it is not exactly a good fit but some of the suggestions are working and I am not so afraid of trying them.

starEvery parent needs the Total Transformation, August 25, 2014
Review by : kczajko

I was skeptical of the Total Transformation. But, I got it after a recommendation from our school's principal and because things with our child were not getting better. After using the Total Transformation techniques, our relationship with our child has completely improved. The techniques were very easy to implement and our child responded the way James said they would. Every parent should be trained in Total Transformation when their children are young. I wish we had this program 10 years ago.

starTotal transformation , August 25, 2014
Review by : Joy Pagtakhan

This program has been very helpful in my parenting skills . James Lehman speaks very clearly and to the point about the problems and strategies in dealing with these problems. His approach is business-like when dealing with issues in the family. The approaches are step by step and easy to implement. He gives many different strategies that worked for me and my children. My husband and I are much better now in dealing with family issues and our children are less argumentative because we deal with them before the issues become a problem. Thins are much better in control.

starHighly Recommend, August 25, 2014
Review by : HappyMom

Implementing this program was one of the best things I've ever done. My child is a good kid but thinks she rules the roost! Our daughter is an only child and my husband and I realized we were pretty lax in her upbringing with rules, parameters, limits and consequences. Now a teenager, tantrums, back-talk, and severe disrespect are the result of our laid-back approach and it became nearly out of control. I love that this program gave clear cut strategies for how to handle situations. When I felt I wasn't getting the results I expected, I called the hot-line for more help and was given effective phrases to say to my daughter for the situation at hand that worked immediatley. I've have seen positive change within a day or two. We've come to understand that there isn't anything drastically wrong with our child, but rather with our parenting techniques. I really think this program should be called "The Parenting Handbook" and be offered to every parent after the birth of their child. I admit I was clueless about how to raise my child other than what I knew, which was unconditional love. This program helped me develop the confidence I needed to be a parent in control. Our lives are much happier and my daughter is responding well to our new approach.

starNew Teenagers and New Ideas, August 23, 2014
Review by : wildbears

I was a mess and thought that I had to train my kids to do what I felt they needed to do. I realized that I was the one who needed to make some real changes so I could help my child make the changes too. I was blind to my ineffective parenting, but now I have the tools to have the patients and behavior to give my child.

starExtraordinary for both my son and I!, August 18, 2014
Review by : TotalTransformationThankfulness

Until working through this program, I blamed Obnoxious behavior of children directly on the parents. This meant when it started happening in extremes with my son and I, that I internalized all his behavior as my fault OR blamed my ex-husband. James helped me grow out of this excuse driven mentality and see things MUCH clearer. This program and my being totally honest with its workbook and techniques, helped me stop the cycle of ineffectiveness. The massive changes in my approach through these techniques are making a tremendous difference. These differences are with both my 15 year old, and me. Some occurred immediately upon use of a technique (like "there is no excuse for abuse, and setting the situation up for next time) and some others are occurring more slowly (replacement behavior and strategic coaching). My son and I are able to coexist again and are building a much healthier parent/child relationship as a result of the Total Transformation. Although, we are still conquering various attitudes/obstacles in behavior, With consistent use of this material I look forward to his remaining three years before entering adulthood and KNOW he'll be better prepared as a result of my embracing James' parenting techniques.

starGreat program, August 18, 2014
Review by : zenaserra

This is a great program with techniques that really work. Break away from the arguing and tantrums and stay calm, be in control. Mr. Lehman gives real techniques to help reprogram your lifestyle so that you can be an effective parent and raise successful kids. Simple things like don't ask why your kid did something wrong, tell them it was wrong and now there's a consequence.

starAccountability, August 14, 2014
Review by : Eva Lussier

My daughter is High Functioning Autistic.I treat her no different than young adult. Before my daughter was controlling me.With this program I have become an empowered parent. I have been teaching my daughter about accountability for the past two years. With love and respect. Teaching respect has made us stronger.

starHold on! Don't pull your hair out yet!, August 13, 2014
Review by : Theresa

The product assists the frustrated parent in an informative manner that allows the parent to learn about your child's development stages in short articles, as well as gives you a connection to other parents with teenagers going through the same developmental problems. The problem areas are easy to identify with. In short, it allows you to keep your hair and to take a breath because you're not the only one going through these experiences. The advice is given in a very professional manner with simple recommendations offering a place to start communicating with your teen in a positive manner.

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