Practical. Strategical. To the point. Efficient. I recommend it for anyone who cares about the children of our society.

Thank you so much for teaching me better ways to handle my teens and communicate with them during times of stress. My outlook has changed tremendously since implementing even small parts of this program in my home. I would do it all again, the money I have paid for this program has no value in comparison to the knowledge I have gained.

I am pleased so far. I am finding that I have to listen to the discs more than omce since I have trouble retaining all of the tips. But, I do find it to be very helpful and most of it is common sense but we just don\'t do it.

The total transformatin has made our home a peacful place again.

Finally a program that is clear concise and most importantly lets parents know it is their job to do. I had some of the pieces from other self help books and family life coaching sessions but your program tied it all together for us. I found this works at any level and not gave it a chance even though my child wasn't physical, using drugs or stealing. Often very intelligent kids become disruptive, rude and non compliant because their parents don't realize their responsibility to show them how to deal with criticism by teachers and classmates and the boredom that they experience in school. I think this should be required learning of every parent of a teenager today! PS - Did not use the support line or customer svc - thus no rating.

So far the program has been very informative and very useful. My kids are elementary school age so we are getting on the right track early on.

The concepts that me and my wife have learned are already making a difference with our children. We were at the end of our rope and this was our last hope. Things are not perfect, but we have a little of our sanity back and understand how our kids manipulate us into believing that we were not adequate as parents. We don't believe that lie anymore.

I appreciate James Lehman's no-nonsense, logical, step-by-step solutions for effective parenting. Changes are occurring slowly but surely. For the first time since I've had children, I feel very empowered and in control and am also learning to be a very effective and happy parent. Thank you!

I was reluctanct about purchasing this program but decided to purchase it after reading numerous reviews. It changed me and my family. i thought my son had problems, but realized that many of our issues spawned from my parenting style. I learned my parenting style and the style my son needed. Once I adjusted my thinking we immediately began to see changes and improvements. We are not out of the water yet, but we are swimming along the shoreline. Thank you.

Thank you for your program. I have been using it only for a short time and the results are amazing. Total Peace hasn\'t arrived yet, I know it is on it\'s way. The staff I have had contact with were excellent.

This is a very straight forward program that give very effective advice and information to parents. The program also provides on-going support via a newsletter and offer a support line which is wonderful. The cost of the program is within reach of most American families. We love it and wish we had it when we first discovered that our son had stopped responding to us with respect and things got more difficult.

We haven't worked our way through the entire program yet but the advice is sound and seems so common-sense. Thanks for bringing us back to the basics of responsibility and accountability and helping us cut through the manipulation and arguments!

Our duaghter has ODD. This program along with several books has got us on the road to recovery and made my wife and I confident again in our abilities. We both teach parenting classes and have two kids that people want to take home and adopt and we were confused. You have set us on the path to correcting behaviors and reccommending you series to our students with Kids like ours.

It is a fantastic system and has worked wonders for our 10 year old and our 13 year old. I feel less stressed and can actually enjoy our kids instead of arguing with them all the time! I like the newsletters as well. Thank you!

The program has not only helped us within our family but has helped me deal with people at work(limit setting/consequences). My only regret is I passed on the parental support line.

We are steadily seeing improvement with our son. He has come to realize that we mean what we say...and will follow through at all costs. What a difference this makes in a child's life. I have referred the Total Transformation to two other individuals.

I have shared your website with many friends having difficulties with their children! I have seen a difference in the behavior of my 6 y/o autistic granddaughter and am very happy with the program.

i have not used all your techniques in the total transformation program, but the ones i have used have been awesome.

We purchased the program for our daughter and grandsons ages 10 and 14. The material seems very helpful for many of the issues facing our daughter as a single mom. Since we have given it to her, we have not completed the series ourselves. I would hope she will have thoe opportunity to respond as well to this review.

My wife and I have decided that we are buying this program as a gift for everyone in our family that decides to start a family. If we had only had this training as new parents...!!!

We have just previewed the material you sent us, before sharing it with any parents at our school. We feel quite positive about what we have seen, and think your program should prove very helpful to several families in our community. Our only concern is with regards to the quantity of information and the number of audio discs provided...we feel some people may feel overwhelmed and be reluctant to dive in!

So far the program seems to be helping. Of course my kids didn't start behaving this way in one day, so it can't be fixed in one day. I review the cd's weekly just to refresh my thinking and stay on track.

Although we have completed the audio CD's, we are still learning how to use the total transfomration program. The few techniques we have tried WORKED! Thank you. The Parental Support Line was hepful We did find that several times we wanted to call, but service was not availabe due to time frame. One time the counselor answered even though we were calling at the last minute, and she talked with us past 9:00pm. I appreciated this.

This program has helped us as parents more than anyone else. Our 9 year old son has scored very high in ADHD, Oppositional Defiance Disorder and Ausberger's syndrome, so he can be a handful and that was on a good day. With the Total Transformation Program we noticed a difference within the first few days. It's been a couple of months now and the yelling, screaming, name calling and throwing has almost stopped completely. "There's no excuse for abuse." As parents, the Program taught us how our son thinks and how to set goals and expectations so our son could solve problems without the frustration(his and ours). I would highly recommend this program to any one having behavorial problems with their children. It has restored peace within our home.

I have and 8 year old son with ADHD and I am recently divorced. The back talking and disrespect had to stop. From day one - I posted a sign in our house "No Excuse for Abuse" and was able to implement the techniques James gave to me and it's working! No more yelling, no more discussions. Thank you!